Shifting gears a bit from my usual midlife, 'find your voice' posts, today's post That Could've Been My Child is being hosted by fellow blogger Angela Noel who invited me to guest post after a comment I made on her blog a few weeks back. Thank you, Angela, for your openness to my comments and for the invitation to continue the conversation.This post was tough to write on several levels - and it may be tough to read. But I believe that tough conversations sometimes need to be had.I welcome your thoughts - and thank you for joining the conversation.